Why can I cum by myself but not with my gf

By Idkwhatswrongwithme · 21 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
So I've been watching porn since I was 13 and ever since then I can easily make myself cum. Over the years I've been in and out of relationships for different reasons until my recent gf. She's amazing and a real freak but when it comes down to being sexual, I just can't cum for her unless I do it myself. I am aroused by her but I just can't cum. What's wrong with me?
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Crazy Dog Lady

Crazy / 28 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

You need to communicate with her. Let her know what feels good to you, and perhaps show her how to jerk you off the way you do it when you masturbate. :)

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Idkwhatswrongwithme

Idkwhatswrongwithme / 21 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

Communication. I really do need to work on that. Again thanks :)

 

Calm

Calm / 20 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Nothing is actually wrong with you, its just that you did masturbate a lot when u were younger, take a break on masturbating for a while, and try out all those fantasies you visualize when you want to cum with her.

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Idkwhatswrongwithme

Idkwhatswrongwithme / 21 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

Now the crazy thing is that my biggest fantasy is just to finish for someone. And that will show me who my wife will be haha.

 

Lovestoeat

Lovestoeat / 34 / Man / Likes Women / Married

nothing is wrong with you. you will have to give up on masturbating for awhile. and when u do it will come eaiser. also try having sex in the same posion u masturbate in. meaning if u masturbate on your back have her be on top.

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Idkwhatswrongwithme

Idkwhatswrongwithme / 21 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

I really appreciate your advice. Thank you.

 

Calm

Calm / 20 / Man / Likes Women / Single

It depends on what she has in mind, wether she wants a vibrator or just to purchase porn movies. Then we can suggest.


Idkwhatswrongwithme

Idkwhatswrongwithme / 21 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

Thank you all for the advice.
One thing I will add is that she wants to go to a sex shop 1 day...any ideas ladies and gents on what to get?


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