what can i do to spice up my sex life with my wife?

By Jaystone · 36 / Man / Likes Women / Married

What can i do to spice up my sex life with my wife? I buy her sexy cloths , boots and just about what ever she may like as we go through a store. But it just seems to last for only a couple of times then it's just forgotten about. What can i do?

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Rob ( Spaminator)

Rob / 31 / Man / Likes Women / Single

the stuff you mentioned (clothes, boots etc) seems to be more for you then for her. From the little info I have, I would guess she wears the stuff for you, but she is not really into it. Do something for her for a change! Ask her what she wants and then do it. Believe me, it usually pays off for you! You should learn to talk more about your desires, turn ons etc. that way you can explore stuff you both might enjoy or at the very least develop a give and take, serving both.

Jaystone

Jaystone / 36 / Man / Likes Women / Married

YES the cloths and boots are for me but she is the one that picked them out, and yes they might be for me too. But she will not open up to me on what she is into. All she can tell me is that all she needs is my big cock. Is that some secret code for women or is she really just wanting my cock that bad? I've tried helping her with blowjobs, on moving her head around more but just keeps going up and down. Got any tips.

Rob ( Spaminator)

Rob / 31 / Man / Likes Women / Single

hm, she might really just be into your cock, or she might just not want to upset you (she could be afraid to hurt your feelings if she seems to not fully satisfied). Sorry bro, I don't speak "woman" better than you ;-)
But as far as tips go: surprise her with new technique for HER! go down on her (if you don't already), or watch heaven's videos for tips on how to do it better. watch for any signals on what give HER pleasure and do that more, experiment to find new spots maybe. Or bring in toys. A vibrating cock ring works amamzingly well for many women (and is nice for guys as well). Or simply try out new positions that might give her more pleasure (deeper penetration, since she says she likes you dick so much). It sounds a bit like she is a bit inhibited when it comes to sex, so show her that you are open and want to please her, and she will do it for you. And giving your partner pleasure can be very exciting in any way!

GG

GG / 34 / Woman / Likes Women / Married

How old is she compared to you i mean?

It sounds to me like she's more about pleasing you because it's easier than realising what she wants. There are a lot of people guilty of that.

I know i'm going to sound like a broken record to the regulars but do you know if she's into anything kinky? Meaning things like BDSM? It might sound bizzare and i don't mean to offend you in anyway but if she rarely comes up with what she wants, then she may be just into pleasing you. She may have submissive tendancies but is scared of telling you.

Or she could just be inexperienced and doesn't know how to tell you that. Like Rob says you really need to talk to her properly to find the answer. We can only make assunptions on her behalf, which isn't right.

 

AskMyGF

AskMyGF / 25 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

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