Revenge of the ex

By Seannyboy93 · 24 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Revenge of the ex

My ex girlfriend. The love of my life cheated on me 2 years ago. We were separated for several months not even talking. Than one day they broke up. We fucked, and fucked, and fucked but nothing else. I knew she was having sex with multiple med at the time. And yes I wore a condom every time. Me being the guy I am couldn't handle just having sex and not being in a relationship especially when she was once mine. So we stopped talking again. Months went on and I found myself a new girlfriend. Not really what who I wanted in my life and was slowly starting to figure that out. Mean time when I was with my new girlfriend, my ex who is 21 was dating a 65 year old. Yeah I know tell me about it. As soon as I broke up with my new girlfriend I immediately texted my ex, guess I just wanted someone to talk to. When I told her that my girlfriend and I broke up she started showing up more and more around here. Not just for sex either. We were actually spending quality time with each other. She come to realize that she could no longer be with this older 65 year old because she had no future with him because of their age difference. So they broke up. And we got back together. Actually as a couple this time. Not just a sex partner. I felt on top of the world. I thought this time she's mine. I love her so much and will never let her go. I remember every little thing we ever talked about it did. We went on road trips we did everything and had a blast doing it. Then one day out of the blue she told me she has to break up with me...... Again. I was devistated. Not as bad as the first time but still heart broken. She told me she had to get back together with her 65 year old lover. I hated them both for that I can't even imagine dating someone 40 years older than me. Not 2 months later and they are engaged, she has a nice new set of tits now, and they're moving to Florida.(we live in Idaho) . I don't know why I have so much feelings for this girl and I know they say things happen for a reason but I honestly can't imagine my life with anyone else. I think about her every single day. Not a figure of speech. I literally think about her every day. I'd say I was a fool to ever get back together with her for a 3rd time but honestly if it came down to it.. I probably would. As I write this we know have been separated for 5 months to date. Does anyone have any advise.?? 

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Crazy Dog Lady

Crazy / 29 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

You need to talk to her about it and try to find out what exactly is going on. There's a few possibilities for why things are happening this way.
1. At 21, she's pretty much in her sexual prime. Therefore, she may not be ready to settle down with somebody for a relationship. She wants to experiment with her sexuality, in which case, I can't blame her.
2. I myself date older men a lot because they seem to be more mature and understanding with me. In my case, I have a disability, and a lot of times younger men just aren't emotionally equipped to dealing with the challenges that come with dating somebody with certain limitations. At the end of the day, age is just a number, as long as both party are consenting adults. Perhaps this guy is showing her the love and affection that she doesn't feel she's getting from you.
3. This could be a SD/SB situation. Given their age difference, that's a real possibility.


Crazy Dog Lady

Crazy / 29 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

You need to talk to her about it and try to find out what exactly is going on. There's a few possibilities for why things are happening this way.
1. At 21, she's pretty much in her sexual prime. Therefore, she may not be ready to settle down with somebody for a relationship. She wants to experiment with her sexuality, in which case, I can't blame her.
2. I myself date older men a lot because they seem to be more mature and understanding with me. In my case, I have a disability, and a lot of times younger men just aren't emotionally equipped to dealing with the challenges that come with dating somebody with certain limitations. At the end of the day, age is just a number, as long as both party are consenting adults. Perhaps this guy is showing her the love and affection that she doesn't feel she's getting from you.
3. This could be a SD/SB situation. Given their age difference, that's a real possibility.


Crazy Dog Lady

Crazy / 29 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

You need to talk to her about it and try to find out what exactly is going on. There's a few possibilities for why things are happening this way.
1. At 21, she's pretty much in her sexual prime. Therefore, she may not be ready to settle down with somebody for a relationship. She wants to experiment with her sexuality, in which case, I can't blame her.
2. I myself date older men a lot because they seem to be more mature and understanding with me. In my case, I have a disability, and a lot of times younger men just aren't emotionally equipped to dealing with the challenges that come with dating somebody with certain limitations. At the end of the day, age is just a number, as long as both party are consenting adults. Perhaps this guy is showing her the love and affection that she doesn't feel she's getting from you.
3. This could be a SD/SB situation. Given their age difference, that's a real possibility.


Crazy Dog Lady

Crazy / 29 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

You need to talk to her about it and try to find out what exactly is going on. There's a few possibilities for why things are happening this way.
1. At 21, she's pretty much in her sexual prime. Therefore, she may not be ready to settle down with somebody for a relationship. She wants to experiment with her sexuality, in which case, I can't blame her.
2. I myself date older men a lot because they seem to be more mature and understanding with me. In my case, I have a disability, and a lot of times younger men just aren't emotionally equipped to dealing with the challenges that come with dating somebody with certain limitations. At the end of the day, age is just a number, as long as both party are consenting adults. Perhaps this guy is showing her the love and affection that she doesn't feel she's getting from you.
3. This could be a SD/SB situation. Given their age difference, that's a real possibility.


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