Next Steps?

By Reg.GuyNNJ · 32 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 3yrs and haven't really had sex for the past year and a half. Holy Shit, I know! My issue is that I truly care for this woman and know that we both love each other. I'm just stuck and don't know what to do, I feel that we're at the point now in our relationship where engagement talk has come up, but I feel that I can't go on with a sexless relationship. We've spoke about in the past and things have improved but eventually regressed. I understand not being in the mood as much as I am but come on. I'm just stuck with what to do because I love the girl but at the same time can't take much more of this. I feel that we've tried talking, but is there something I should say or do. I don't really like ultimatiums but feel like I don't know what else to do. With that said I don't want to pressure her into sex. Any thoughts would be great. 


JM_02 / 23 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Let her walk in on u fapping and she will ask if you want help with it


Lovestoeat / 35 / Man / Likes Women / Married

my wife and i had the same trouble. we went through a marriage workbook by douglas wiess who had a whole chapter deticatied to sex and it worked out so well. he is a christian cousler so you have to be ok with little christian dialouge. if that dont work try a sexual conusler.

Crazy Dog Lady

Crazy / 29 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

No sex for 1.5 years? seriously? This is where I need to ask, what's her fucking problem? Clearly it's her that's the trouble, not you. I could never have a sexless relationship, that's for sure.

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