How to talk to my fiancée about doing more?

By Tanner · 26 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Hey it's Tanner, I just wanted to ask, what steps can I take to show my Fiancée that (doing more sexually) like breast play, French kissing, oral play, are good things to explore, before we get married, because she's wanting to wait until we get married in 2018, to have sex, (for the first time) with me, though we both have watched porn before, and I've experienced sex a couple years back, at the latest. Which I realize sex isn't everything with my fiancée, and have wanted to wait also, though she hasn't been able to experience much, just like Heven wasn't, so I just would like advice on how we can talk about things, so she doesn't have to feel dirty, anything regarding premarital sex, though other things like I mentioned, can you guys and girls help with some advice?


Lovestoeat / 35 / Man / Likes Women / Married

like crazydoglady said before sexual chemistry is very important and if you dont explore it before u get married u will be unhappy if you two arent combatible it will lead to a sexual frustrating marraige and or divorce. most people go through the process natural but when one or bothe parties put up a wall it seems forced or awarked. be carefull this is why long egangments without sex normally dont lead to marriage. i would say 'if i promise i wont have sex with you tonight can lay in the bed without your shirt on and see where it goes. good luck.


Lovestoeat / 35 / Man / Likes Women / Married

or try a game of truth or dare with the dares getting more and more adventourous.


Tanner / 26 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Oh thanks a lot for the advice, would you mind if I'd wanna pm you, and I can explain more about our situation?


Lovestoeat / 35 / Man / Likes Women / Married

check ur inbox.

Crazy Dog Lady

Crazy / 29 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

Sounds like your fiance is extremely religious or at least confused. Not a good combination. I think first you need to convince her that premarital sex doesn't make her a bad Christian. Tell her a semminary student said so and see what happens. LOL

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