Getting on top of a man and riding him during sex is an awesome position, very pleasurable both for men and women. For men its great because they re usually the ones doing all the work, and with the girl riding them on top it’s the one position where they can actually lay back, relax, and watch the show. Besides, when you’re on top of your man it gives them a great view of you - rust me, every guy’s fantasy is to watch a girl’s rack bouncing.
You don’t even have to worry about if the guy is going to reach orgasm or not, because men don’t have a problem achieving it; it’s the women with the complications. So when you’re on top, the best thing is that everything is under your control. You set the speed to whatever you want, and you set the wildness level of the sex to what how kinky you feel. It’s way easier for you to achieve an orgasm that way, and have sex that really satisfies you till the end. And the guy, he can achieve orgasm anyway.
When you get on top of your man, you’re actually switching controls. Although you can just do it anyway YOU like best and the guy will reach climax anyway, but if you’re kind, you should ask your men how they like it. You’re being the dominant one here and some couples find that kinky enough itself to get closer to reaching orgasm. You’re doing him instead of him doing you, get it?
The best way is to forget about the guy’s pleasure for a while, and have your own because if the guy orgasms before you, he’ll grow soft so you won’t be able to ride him anyway. But if you reach climax, it’s not like your vagina is going to disappear. So after you’re through (which is great because that’s a common complaint girls have, that their men are done before the women even started) then start asking your man how he likes it, how fast you should be, how hard you should give it to him, and how deep it wants it. He’ll orgasm in no time. So what do we have here? Viola! A perfectly satisfying night!
Getting on top doesn’t only have to be in one position. Even being on top branches off into all kinky methods, so you’ll never grow bored. Give your man some spice by trying all of the following out.
Try to ride him simply, with your thighs bent in a sitting position, and your private close to his dick. Move forwards and backwards as though you’re on a rodeo bull! When you’ve practiced some, do this reverse style.
If he’s big, squat on top of him, with your feet resting on his thighs. Hold his hands for support, so that you don’t fall off when you start moving. Place his dick inside, and start bouncing up and down. It’s pleasurable, kinky, and it opens you up for easy penetration.
Lie on top of him aligning your private with his. Slip it in, and use only the flexibility of your back to create the momentum. It’s only your lower back and your bottom that you’re supposed to move, while the rest of your body lying on top of him relaxes. It’s somewhat like a missionary style lying down but only opposite, since the woman’s on top instead of the man. This position is pretty sensual since you can bite his lips, and kiss him while you’re at it.
Remember, practice makes perfect!
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