How can I make my Fuck Buddy Want me even more?

By Kay · 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I really enjoy the sex with my fuck buddy. Last time was really really great because we started to get a little more creative. When he left the room I stripped down to just my plaid button up (unbuttoned of course) and black thigh high tights. And when he asked me where I left my panties I told him I left them at home in my drawer. And he was really really turned on by that! And he bought some hot lube and massage oil and we were having crazy fun with foreplay. And before you know it we're in different positions getting extremely pleasured from each others movements. He gets me to come multiple times during the sex and we love going for a second round too, but the problem now is that even though we are total freaks with each other and literally get a overdose of natural Ecstasy from each other, I still wanna screw around more, and this has happened the last 2 times we fucked around. The 1st time I wanted to go for a 3rd round, we ran out of condoms so we couldnt fuck again, but last time he was too tired for a 3rd one. Now before I'd only want to do 1 round, but now I keep wanting to fuck more. Is there anything I can do to make him want to keep fucking? And I have tried being spontaneous, last time when he was taking me home, I gave him a surprise blow job(a Drive and Blow I call it) and he really really loved it, he was even fingering me, while driving, while getting head lol. But he was just unable to come again for a long long while so when I stopped giving head.. he would lose a bit of his hardness. So I'm being spontaneous, He loves it, I'm giving great foreplay, He loves it, I'm calling him daddy and dirty talking to him during the sex, He loves it, I get on top and ride him. He loves it. And I'm totally submissive to every little thing he wants to do to me, like sucking on my tits while hes fucking me, or gripping my neck and telling me I'm his dirty little slut, spanking my ass, tongue kissing me, I even let him cum on any part of my body. He loves it and so do I. We are total sex freaks and we have great great great sex! But how do I make him last even longer during sex or want more sex after 2 long rounds? Am I asking for too much sex for us being fuck buddies? Or Can I actually do something to make him want to fuck me more?

Oh and btw. I am a pretty cute girl with a slim but curvey figure (big butt and 34C boobs) He loves the way I look so it's not my appearance..

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Zeratul

Zeratul / 28 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

check your messages. sent you a long lengthy message of an answer.


Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I AM NO LONGER READING ANYMORE RESPONSES, THANK YOU EVERYONE.

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Redoy

Redoy / Man / Likes Women / Single

realy u r so cute so i want to u .this isy email id eliashussain68@yahoo.com

Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

FUCK OFF CREEP

ryaCAM

ryaCAM / 23 / Man / Likes Women / Single

he is creeping me out and im a guy lol

Iloveboobies

Iloveboobies / Man / Likes Women / Single

hey babe....i wish to honour ur b'day present as ma dick deep in ur cave

 

Slick_rick

Slick_rick / 34 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Damn what a lucky guy. To be honest I don't think there is anything you could do aside from slipping him a viagra which doesn't seem like he needs Sounds like you are just wearing the poor guy out, maybe if he was okay with sharing you and you were okay with another guy maybe that would help.Even if it was not a true threesome they could play tag, one guy goes in fucks your brains out comes outof the room to get a drink and a break other guy goes in fucks your brains out, rinse and repeat you get the idea.

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Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

hahahahahahaha rinse and repeat thats hilarious..And as for me being shared.. its always a hot idea, but he wouldnt want another guy in the middle of this, maybe another girl sure but im too selfish to share with another girl unless the girl is my close friend and the guy is her hot guyfriend or boyfriend.

Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Also, it wouldnt be a problem for me to just msg another guy to have more sex.. But he's one of the few guys i know that I'm actually attracted to and doesnt want a relaytionship. Well I assume he doesnt cause he never asked for anything other than us fucking.

Zeratul

Zeratul / 28 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

actually he might want a relationship. proven fact that most fuck buddies end after a few weeks or months because one person develops feelings for the other.

Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

yeah but hed say something. And I think he'd try and do sublte hints that he wants more than fucking around..

Zeratul

Zeratul / 28 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

not necessarily. how long have you known him?

Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

uumm well I actually met him last year in the spring semester of college so about a Year now. He went up to me randomly while i was walking to my next class and asked me a weird question, but funny weird, it was would you break up with your bf if he listened to disney songs?" and I told him "no way, if anything id love him more! haha" and he told me that his sister broke up with her bf cause of that so we started having a bit of a convo, and of course my bro saw me and came up to us and i had to cut the convo short with him. I also was engaged during that time so I never thought about him after that day. then i didnt see him again until the fall semester in my improv class. I completely forgot about that day until he told me we met before and reminded me of that day. I was suprised he remembered me from that long ago, especially since i didnt take to summer classes so i was out of sight for a long time. Then one day i couldnt find my cell in the class and he offered to help me find it by him calling it. So i pretty much gave him my number without realizing it. then we started texting each other casually then one night 1 come home late and he asks me if im still up and if i feel like hanging out. and we go to his place, we put on a movie, im telling him my shoulders hurt and he offers to give me a massage. then he's facing me and massaging my legs and before you know it we lock eye contact during the massage and he moves in and kisses me. So then we had great sex and finished the rest of the movie. He took me home and from then on we started being fuck buddies.. so from September til now pretty much. And we just progressively get freakier and freakier lol. but there was a time we didnt see eachother for 3 months and during that time I lost 20 pounds and he got buffer, so when we hung out again. hes telling me I got even hotter and still got my curves and im telling him he got hotter from all the extra muscle he's gained. So definitly we were having more confidence in ourselves and it made our sex even better lol. Does that explain it all?

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

This scenario makes you seem so hot. I've had two "friends with benefits" relationships. One that lasted a couple of years, so I know Fuck Buddies can work. My two-year relationship only ended because I had to relocate for my job. It was difficult giving up the relationship but we parted on excellent terms. I would definitely do it again.

 

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

It isn't so much a question of whether or not he wants more sex, its a question of whether or not he can perform as quickly as you would like him to. After a guy cums, it takes a certain length of time before he is capable of cuming again. The older a guy gets the longer the time he needs to "recharge." But even guys in their teens and 20s can recharge only so many times before they need a time out, which could take hours. Again, results vary. Believe me, if he isn't ready for a third time, it is not because he is tired, it is because he needs more time before his body will allow him to cum again.

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Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

im 21 and hes 23

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

That should mean that he needs a minimum of time to recharge but he still has limitations. Otherwise all guys would cum 3 or 4 times every time they had sex. The sad truth is that even in our teens and early 20s, men need a minimum of 30 minutes after orgasm to think about getting off again. When I was in my early 20s and in the Army I used to be able to get home on weekends and my wife and I would try to make up for lost time. We some times would do it 3 or 4 times a day on a weekend but never without a time out between acts. It has very little to do with strength and stamina. It is just that it takes time for the seminal fluid to be replaced.

 

Deiticlast

Deiticlast / 28 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Text him. Don't send him any pics (unless you want to end up on the internet). Let him know that you are thinking about his rock-hard cock, and you are just getting all wet thinking about it plunging deep into your tight pussy. No, seriously, do that! Any guy who doesn't drop what he's doing and come over to get some just isn't interested, even if he has a girlfriend on the side.

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Deiticlast

Deiticlast / 28 / Man / Likes Women / Single

And yeah, I just finished rereading this post, and for God's sakes, girl, give the guy a break! You're wearing him out!

Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

well i guess if I am doing what I can to satisfy him and he isnt asking for more, then I should ease up than.. Lol But yeah, next time I see him I'll tell him exactly that, and i dont send nudes to guys... if they wanna see me they gotta work for it lol

 

TGD

TGD / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

Yeah, everyone is different when it comes to recovery time. From what you've said and all of the points you brought up, It just sounds like you have better stamina than him. Edging would make him last longer, but you want him to be able to go more after he's finished, so that all depends on how long it takes him to recover, and how much energy he has. How long have you two been fwb's?

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Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

since september, the last 2 times ive been wanting to go more..

TGD

TGD / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

Alright, cause I was going to that if you two hadn't been seeing each other that long, then he might get used to your energy and stamina, but I guess he just can't adapt. That's a real shame for both of you, but at least you two like the same things and do get off : ) I guess you can choose to try and deal with it, or you can start looking for a fuck buddy who's more up to par with your sexual energy.

Kay

Kay / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

we did have a gap where we didnt see each other for a few months, during that time I lost alot of weight and he gained a lot of muscles.. so when we saw eachother after so long, i think things got more heated cause we were more attracted to each other than before

TGD

TGD / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

That makes sense, I guess (I don't really care about weight, to a certain extent) but if he really likes a woman to be skinnier, then he would be more attracted to you, then in turn, it might be a bit harder for him to hold out because of how turned on he is by your appearance, but really it shouldn't be having that much of an effect.

TGD

TGD / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

Not to where you're having the issue with his recovery time. In fact, if he's more attracted to your current appearance, then he should really be having no issues going again and again. That's why I still say that he just doesn't have the stamina that you have. Some people just can

TGD

TGD / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

cant go over and over again, it's unfortunate if you're a person with great stamina, but you have to either accept your partners abilities, or if you're really not satisfied and it's frustrating you, then I'd say move on. I firmly believe in finding someone who syncs up with me sexually, and I believe that it's crucial to any relationship whether it's fuck buddies, or an actual loving relationship, so unless I have that, I won't stay. It may sound cold to some people, but I wouldn't want to keep someone from finding a person that they're far better matched with, and same for me. Sex is a very big part of relationships, and even fwb arrangements, so when two people don't sync up, it can potentially cause problems. But It sounds as if you two are great in that area, except for his ability to go again and again. You say he pleases you, gets you off, and you both are enjoying the sex, it's just the stamina that you're taking issue with. So maybe you can just learn to deal with it, but idk, if it's really frustrating to you then you can't blame yourself for wanting to find someone who measures up more.

 

Cliff

Cliff / Man / Likes Women / Single

I think you need more then one fuck buddy .

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

Sounds like that to me also. The only way she is going to be able to avoid waiting for him to recover is to have someone or two or three step in and take his place. Maybe that is why being in a gang bang is a leading fantasy for many women.

 

ryaCAM

ryaCAM / 23 / Man / Likes Women / Single

lucky bastard lol jk jk


AzGuy

AzGuy / 71 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

love ur profile picture beautiful girl :)


Lucky

Lucky / Man / Likes Women / Single

Whoooooof ! What a lucky guy... well I think you are being a bit greedy. Try to have a lil control on urself , dont go for him , dont show him you want more....may be then he will get a bit curious to go for 3rd round. OR a full glass of milk after each round may help you buddy to stay for 3rd round LOL


JJ

JJ / 64 / Man / Likes Women / Single

There are some interesting thoughts here but the fact is he's a fuck buddy not a bf, who else does he fuck and how often? It may be that you are 'sucking hind tit' when it comes to your turn to fuck him. The first thing that wives look for if they think their husband is cheating, is a slow down in his sexual appetite. Your guy is young and virile and should be good for as much sex as you are but not if he's fucking multiple girls. As just a fuck buddy you have no right to question who else he may be fucking at the same time, so it may be best to hook up with a second or even third fuck buddy to get your needs satisfied. If he is becoming more than just a fuck buddy to you (which I strongly suspect), then you need to tell him and if he's conducive to it, lay claim to his dick as your own to get exclusive rights and thus sexual satisfaction for yourself.

At his age if he can't go at least 3-4 times in a row with you on a regular basis then he's probably fucking somebody else too. I have been highly sexed all of my life and haven't slowed down much even now, in my prime I could go 6 times in a row without ever losing a hard on but like I said, I'm a bit over-the-top when it comes sex stamina, so I'm not a good example. People here who have known me for a while know that I don't say such things to impress...it's the way I was born (according to the doc anyway).

If you only want to fuck HIM more, then he needs to become more than just a fuck buddy...is he willing to commit to only you? Do you love him enough to commit to him or is it JUST the sex that is good and nothing else? I sowed a ton of wild oats by growing up in the midst of the sexual revolution but for the most part I took them one at a time and enjoyed the love as well as the sex. I know fuck buddies are popular today, but there always seems to be so many complications with it all...somebody ends up getting hurt.

(Pic of fuck buddies just kickin it)

TGD

TGD / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

Very real possibility that she should consider, but lets not forget that everyone's stamina and sex drive, is different. So him not being able to go many times, doesn't necessarily mean that he has more than one fuck buddy, but again, it's a possibility to definitely consider.

JJ

JJ / 64 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Absolutely true, I'm just speaking of the average red-blooded American 23 year old male.

TGD

TGD / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

: ) I don't know too many guys who even have one fuck buddy, let alone several. Actually, a lot of guys around my age are talking about getting married, or are already engaged. I think you might be underestimating the frivolous nature of how young people go about relationships these days. Or maybe it's just the kind of people I hang around, but they're all older than me, and I only know one guy who has a fwb. I really don't know any players. Her guy could very well be one of those players though.

 

Cliff

Cliff / Man / Likes Women / Single

I don't know what more you could do . He does want you and you even called him a sexual freak. You re just a little more freaky.


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