Has Porn ruined us?

By Thor! · 50 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Back in the day, when I was just a lad, it was enough to get my dick near some girls pussy.

It was enough to get a kiss.

Doggy style was definitely in the "kinky" column.

Now I hear 15 year old virgins wondering if they should come on their girlfriends faces. I hear 14 year old girls wondering if they should do anal the first time.

Tonight.

Sigh...

I'm definitely not down on porn at all. In fact, I watch a fair amount of porn, several times a week in fact. Sue me.

But, young folks. Start with the basics.

Seriously.

First of all, be safe. Then do simple things like missionary, doggy, cowgirl. Reverse cowgirl. And of course my favorite... Asian Cowgirl.

Learn how to give a good blow job, without cutting off your boyfriend's dick. And guys, learn how to eat out your girl so that she comes. And comes hard.

Learn how to be not selfish in lovemaking.

Forget the porn for a minute. Get the basics first, then once you have it all down, by all means, blow a load in your girlfriend's face. Let him pump you deep in the butt. But get the basics out of the way first.

Deal?

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Boobootoo

Boobootoo / Man / Likes Women / Desperate

Nice +1

Kids expect to be financially independant upon leaving college, or expect to find a cushy job that fulfills them spiritually within a year. They expect to own a house and car and live as well as their parents do, all right now.

And they expect their love lives to mirror the movies and sex to be like porn.

The inflation of expectations without regular reality checks, will create depression.

We hear about every death, disaster and heartache in the world, as if it happened in our neighborhood. How do we enjoy our child's birthday, when 98 others just died?

At some point we have to try to reset or reboot or clear our cache...

Enjoy your first kiss, your first touch of a breast, your first love. Enjoy the ride and don't focus only on the end goal.

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Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)

Andy / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

The problem with that Boo is that your so caught up in the moment it goes by too quickly to fully appreciate what your doing when your doing it, and then its over and never comes back...egh.

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)

Andy / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

And 150,000 died on your kid's b-day, not 98. Just sayin. Link:

http://www.hebrew4christians.com/About_HFC/Death_Rate/death_rate.html

I like the decimalized deaths. ;-) Apparently people die 1/10th at a time. ;-)

Rob ( Spaminator)

Rob / 32 / Man / Likes Women / Single

@ Andy: yes, 150,000 died, but some of them were assholes anyway. Besides, If you upset by that number, forget about it. It is a number you can't do shit about it anyway (or at least 99.99%).

Boobootoo

Boobootoo / Man / Likes Women / Desperate

It's going to go by too fast, and be over, and not come back, either way. :-P

 

Rob ( Spaminator)

Rob / 32 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Well, interesting you posted this, Thor!. We had a huge discussion about that in G. In the end there was a major study and turns out that even though the kids have a screwed up image of sex. But turns out when it comes to intimacy, love and relationships, they aren''t really different. Ok, more likely to do anal and oral, bit otherwise not much difference.
As far as "the guys just want to blow their load" has always happened! Douchebags have been around for a while now. Just in the past people didn't know and didn't share it online.


GG

GG / 35 / Woman / Likes Women / Married

Perfect post Thor! Of course lol.


AskMyGF

AskMyGF / 25 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

+ 1


Tiresias

Tiresias / 33 / Transexual / Likes Bisexuals / Single

Porn definitely has ruined sex. Prior to the internet even "meet and fuck" setups were still fairly intimate. Not saying there wasn't porn before the internet, but now everyone has access to it.

Now all people are interested in is what they see on videos. Guys just want to blow their load and they want the woman they're with to act like they enjoy it, even though the female orgasms in most pornographic movies are most likely fake.

I don't know many women who genuinely enjoy anal. Yet it seems that's all most men want. Blow jobs are one sided. In the movies the man will run their tongue over a woman's genitals enough to get them warmed up, but rarely to completion. Yet the woman always blows the man to completion, and this is what most guys want to emulate.

And I haven't even gotten into the special issues yet. People who watch "shemale" porn expect to be penetrated or to be able to give a blow job. Never mind the fact that the bulk of us don't even want to use our penises (there are exceptions, but forums will show that they're in the minority).

There's nothing wrong with porn per se. In fact, I have a five disc DVD player. In slot 1 is Ready to Drop 7, in slot 2 is Pretty and Pregnant, and in slot 3 is Pregnant Fantasies. I watch them at least twice a week.

The problem comes when people who expose themselves to those videos at a much too young age end up thinking that's real sex. They enter the dating world thinking that all it takes to get a woman off is a few licks, two minutes of hard pounding, and if they haven't gotten there by the time the guy's ready to blow his load that's too bad.

They don't see trans-women as real people trying to live the lives they should have been born into. They see us as gay men with breasts who are just there for their pleasure and don't exist after they get what they want. I wouldn't be too surprised if there's someone out there with the same video collection I have who seeks out single soon-to-be mothers, woos them, and leaves once the child is born.

And now that more and more women are viewing porn, it's doing a real number on them. They watch it, thinking that's what sex is, and then wonder why they can't get off unless they take matters into their own hands.

I don't think porn should be banned, but I think there should be some kind of test in place that anyone trying to access it has to pass.


JustMe ( Ice Queen)

Admin JustMe / 31 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Single

+1 (Like)


Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)

Andy / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

+ 1, but where did you hear those stories Thor!? I don't remember anyone come in here with those questions today or recently. Just curious where it came from is all.

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Thor!

Admin Thor / 50 / Man / Likes Women / Single

You've not been reading the questions asked on here Andy?

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)

Andy / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

I have, I just don't remember THOSE questions, at least not within the last day or two.

 

AkingblueballsC

AkingblueballsC / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single

I believe that statements true.


Adrian (resident A-hole)

Adrian / 31 / Man / Likes Couples / Married

+.......uh, INFINITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nothing more i can add.


Guy

Guy / 25 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Yep, I believe porn has ruined sex for everyone. It has even less meaning than it did before, and it's a lot more about individual interests and selfishness. It freaks me out also to hear young teens talking about crazy kinky sex and bizarre fetishes, but what do you expect when their sex-ed is basically internet porn?


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