How do I get my GF to masturbate for me?

By Jersey1 · Woman / Likes Men / Single

I've been trying to get my girlfriend to masturbate in front of me while I watch. She is very shy and not experienced. I'm not sure how to entice her to do this however I would love to watch. What can I do to make this happen?

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Mitch

Mitch / Woman / Likes Men / Single

The key to getting your girlfriend to masturbate for you is to entice her with expensive gifts. If you're poor, try getting her drunk off of cheap liquor. But if you want to do it the right way, take it slow. I mean reaaaaal slow. Obviously she is not comfortable with masturbating in front of you, so you have to make the environment and situation is to her liking. Make sure the lighting is subtle; she might not want to be performing as if she were on a porno set. Get her excited! don't just get her naked and request her to rub her nub. Let her get in the mood (foreplay, foreplay, foreplay). She'll be that much more into the moment. How about you masturbate for her first? How does that feel big guy? If you're not willing to raise the stakes, why should she? Remember, the key to getting what you want in sex is to cater to her needs first and foremost.


Forcemaster2000

Forcemaster2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

If you want your girlfriend to masturbate in front of you, do it in front of her first. Set up a chair in front of your bed, or next to it. Light some candles in the room and turn down the lights. Have a glass of wine sitting on a table next to the chair. Bring your girlfriend into the room with a blindfold on. Sit her in the chair. Lie back on the bed, get naked and ask your gf to take off the blindfold. Tell her to sit back and enjoy the wine and the show.

Don't just whack off like you normally would though. Take your time, show her how much you enjoy it. Tell her what it feels like to stroke yourself, and what you're thinking about. Make her realize just what a sexual being you are. Afterwards, ask her to join you in the bed to cuddle with you, (women love this). Now, ask her if "someday", she can surprise you with a similar show!

After all, you can't expect her to do this for you, unless you're willing to do it for her. She may just need to know that you're willing to let your defenses down as much as you're asking her to do it.


Msrk

Msrk / Woman / Likes Men / Single

You should get cozy with her and then regular foreplay, and then take her pants off, and then go down on her, and then pull up, and use your hands and some ky and pop your palm in her. Encourage her at that point to do the same. Framed like a lesson, voila.


Sexnthecity2000

Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Your girlfriend may be self-conscious about her body, or about trying to do this very private act in front of someone. Starting out slow will be your best bet. Tell her you would love to touch yourself while she touches herself. Start out by integrating masturbation at some point during sex. During foreplay, lay face to face on the bed. Take your hands away from her and touch yourself, leaving one hand on her breast. Then, guide her hand to your penis while you touch her vagina. Reverse, leaving her to touch herself and you to touch yourself. Encourage her, telling her how beautiful she looks, how hot this makes you. After a minute or so, go back to touching one another. As she touches herself for you, she will realize how excited it gets you, and hopefully feel more encourage and self-assured to do it on her own in the future. Also, make sure you are willing to masturbate in front of her. This will open up a lot of doors, and make it not as taboo if you do it first.


Graham

Graham / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I suspect that in many cases, people are shy about trying something new because they're self-conscious about being in the spotlight. Crank that up a few notches when they're first to give it a shot. Crank that up even further, when it's anything sexual. In a situation like this, it helps to be prepared to give it a shot yourself, first.

Try it out yourself for her, first. Set out an armchair or a bed or wherever your favourite setting for your own entertainment is, get comfortable and - if you can - set up a comfortable chair with a good view of the activity. Let her settle in and tell her just to watch. Then lie back and get going.

Remember, this isn't just going to be your usual technique of rubbing your cock until it bursts - this is going to be a spectator event, which follows different rules. Put on a real performance for her. Let her know she turns you on, compliment her on her body. You can be romantic, but this is a time that you're allowed to be to be frank and explicit - you're turned on enough that it's completely acceptable (and hot) to let your cock take the lead.

A lot of women have never seen a man masturbate and this can be very illuminating for them. They're moved that he allows himself to be vulnerable and is comfortable with them witnessing what is - essentially - a very private and solitary activity. This, in turn, destigmatises the activity and makes them more inclined to reciprocate.

So... try setting up that first event like your performance is the only item on the agenda. Get comfortable, make sure she is comfortable and has a great view, put on a world-class performance, let her ask questions (if she wants), allow her to make suggestions (if she wants), fire it off and finally - chill. The next step is up to her. Chances are, she'll think it over and you might not even have to put the request to her again.


Exokisa

Exokisa / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I’m not surprised your girlfriend is shy about masturbating in front of you. It’s pretty ballsy for a girl to admit she masturbates, let alone put on a show. When we’re young, our parents usually tell us it’s bad to touch ourselves or that it’s something we should only do in private and never talk about. My female friends and I never used to talk about masturbation. Oddly enough, it was probably having a few close male friends that really allowed me to open up sexually by talking to them about what we both liked. That’s where you need to begin.

You’ve got to get your girlfriend to open up about what pleases her. If she’s willing to admit that she does masturbate, it shouldn’t be too hard to get her to tell you what she thinks about when she masturbates. Thinking about it and telling you about it will probably arouse her. Then, you could ask her to explain in detail what she does to herself, ie. how she strokes her clit, how many fingers she inserts, etc. Ask her to let you try it yourself. Chances are, you will fail at perfectly replicating what she does to herself, but that’s okay. You want to entice her into showing you how it’s done.

Just be patient. Give her compliments and reassure her if she seems uncertain. If she really starts to get into it, don’t just whip out your junk and start beating it like you’re watching your favorite porno. Ask for her permission first. If she doesn’t feel comfortable with that, just enjoy the show and store it for later. Good luck.


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Teddy / Woman / Likes Men / Single

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12GAUGE / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

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12GAUGE / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

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I will say this tho. My last gf would not masturbate for me the first time I asked her. Tho I admit my timing was about as subtle as a bull in a China Shop. By the same token when she asked the same of me I wouldn't. Mostly because I felt embarrassed initially. And tho neither of us ever did it in front of the other we both did it then told the other after. She thot of me while she did it and I thot of her while I did it.

We were able to talk of other things sexual which I found highly erotic. I found it highly erotic to pleasure her with dildos and dongs and tho at first she tried to deny it she enjoyed it too. It made me quite proud to make her cum that hard. At the same time I told her of my insatiable need for anal sex as the bottom. It took quite a bit of dialog from me before she gave me this wonderful treat. It was even more glorious than I ever imagined the first time she pegged me. Imagine if you will guys an orgasm that is continous from the very start to the finish and it has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with your dick or sac!!
I begged her several times to do me with a strapon but she was reluctant to the point of denying me that sweet pleasure. She did agree to pipeline me with several of my favorite toys. While it took a little while for her to get the hang of it with the right toy once she did I was in Seventh Heaven!!!

Sorry for going a zillion kilometers off topic. When it cums to anal sex I am a man possessed.


Bigpun

Bigpun / 49 / Man / Likes Women / Married

masturbation is usually a private thing atleast for me it is....i ask my wife about her past masturbating experinces and she really doesnt want to talk about it.. i tell her some of mine...maybe sit her down and masturbate in front of her or masturbate her to show how much you like it...it al is about being comfortable with eachother....my wife wont masturbate in front of me now after 24 years of marriage..its is all about being comfortable............


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