Blowing a flaccid penis

By Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · 29 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

OK, I'll be strait-out and admit this question is inspired by something I saw in porn recently. Its kind-of a silly question but it got me curious.

I saw this girl in a porn video start to give a guy a blowjob wile he was still short and soft, basically completely flacid, and got him off before it got vary much longer or seemingly harder. In my experience it is more than possible to cum with a flacid and shorter-than-fully-erect member if I am arroused enough, so I know that is possible. My question is has anyone done/experienced this and what is it like for either/both people involved? Is it better or worse to blow a guy than when he is fully hard and long? How does the guy feel? Just say whatever you want about the whole experience or even just the idea of it.

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AskMyGF

AskMyGF / 24 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Yep, I've experienced it. Blowing a soft dick sucks to be honest. Sucks, haha, funny word choice Heaven. Anyway, it's really hard to grab a hold of a flaccid dick to whack off at the end of a blowjob, and if you're swallowing, it's hard because the cum sort of sloshes around all over the place and doesn't really "glide" down the throat. From the blower's perspective, it also doesn't feel like you've accomplished much because you couldn't even get the person hard. Sure that should seem like a super accomplishment because you did that damn good of a blow job, but it becomes more depressing than anything.

I'm a firm believer in foreplay, and I typically don't even start sending my head down yonder until I know I have a rock hard rod waiting for me. If it's not hard when I'm down there, I make sure it gets that way before I finish things up. End of story :)


M

M / 38 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

Wow. I'm trying to be open to the idea of sucking on a flaccid penis. In my experience, I haven't liked it. It's a texture issue that turns me off. It doesn't work to hold on to the base, where my boyfriend says he likes to feel pressure, when it's flaccid. This is the first relationship I've had where the guy doesn't get hard or even chubby from seeing and touching my naked body. He has to be physically stimulated, constantly, or he loses it. Help! How can I adjust my thinking so I enjoy giving him what he wants?

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)

Andy / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

You have to stimulate him if that is what he needs. Handjobs should do the job well enough, and generally touching/caressing/kissing/licking all over his body should also help get him up, even if its takes some direct penile stimulation also.

 

Tiresias

Tiresias / 33 / Transexual / Likes Bisexuals / Single

I kind of prefer them soft. I don't know what it is, but it's more fun for me like that. As with Heaven, though, I don't start (or didn't, since I don't see any way I can be with a man now that I'm completely focused on settling down) until they're fully erect, but once they blow their load and go back down I start all over again with a soft one.

There's just something about it. It might be because all you ever see are hard ones. In movies, every guy I've been with waited until he was erect before pulling it out, etc. It might just be the novelty of having a flaccid one to play with.


Gimmie

Gimmie / Woman / Likes Couples / Single

If he's old & has ED, it doesn't mater much what you do.
It's going to stay flacid, so just enjoy what you have.

JJ

JJ / 64 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Very insightful and anatomically correct. What are your experiences with elderly and dysfunctional cocks? Just curious, PM me if you prefer.

 


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