I like anal, but why is it important to you guys that it hurts?

By Jlow416 · 47 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
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NvrEnuff

NvrEnuff / 51 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

I used to think anal was not the way until one of my playthings one day asked me to do her anally.To my surprise she was a virgin in that way but had five of the most explosive orgasms of our 2 year acquaintance.Other women that I dabbled with anal all said I was the only one they enjoyed it with compared to other lovers they had.They all mentioned the same things of how I took my time and allowed them to accommodate to my large size.When they initiate movement is my signal to to slowly start my assault because shortly she is screaming for me to go faster, harder until I feel that I am going to break her in two.This is what happened to me on multiple occasions since I was 21 and now I can't wait until the next.So "no pain" is far greater an attraction in my eyes.Patience and playtime in the anal arena are the keys to a pleasurable and orgasmic experience.Now this doesn't go for all women just a majority of you blessed beings.

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Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

How large is your size? The ones I had anal intercourse with were more or less average size. When I tried bigger, it never ever got to any fast "assault", nor for an extremely long intercourse.

 

NvrEnuff

NvrEnuff / 51 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

I used to think anal was not the way until one of my playthings one day asked me to do her anally.To my surprise she was a virgin in that way but had five of the most explosive orgasms of our 2 year acquaintance.Other women that I dabbled with anal all said I was the only one they enjoyed it with compared to other lovers they had.They all mentioned the same things of how I took my time and allowed them to accommodate to my large size.When they initiate movement is my signal to to slowly start my assault because shortly she is screaming for me to go faster, harder until I feel that I am going to break her in two.This is what happened to me on multiple occasions since I was 21 and now I can't wait until the next.So "no pain" is far greater an attraction in my eyes.Patience and playtime in the anal arena are the keys to a pleasurable and orgasmic experience.Now this doesn't go for all women just a majority of you blessed beings.


Slick_rick

Slick_rick / 34 / Man / Likes Women / Single

I disagree you might just have had the wrong sx partners in the past. For some people it is a type of fetish or turn on to see their partner in pain. For me personally I am the extreme opposite I want to see the pleasure on your face and in your eyes that's what brings me the greatest pleasure.

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Slick_rick

Slick_rick / 34 / Man / Likes Women / Single

sex*

 

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

I want no part of inflicting any kind of pain on my partner, which is another reason I have desire to try anal.

Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

no desire to try it. good for you!!! yeah, I don't know why guys are so into it. it's the power thing possibly.

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

I don''t understand why a guy wants to put his dick in a shit hole when paradise is less than an inch away. What is worse is when he wants to put his shit covered dick in her mouth afterwards. I can't imagine why anyone would want to demean another person in that way. He is sick for wanting to do it and she is more sick for letting him do it. IMHO.

eJefe

eJefe / 49 / Man / Likes Women / Single

We're well aware of your opinion by now, and opinions are like...well, those things you refuse to have sex with, and everyone has one. There are a couple of points I can help you understand. It doesn't seem, from your posts that you've ever tried anal. I have.

eJefe

eJefe / 49 / Man / Likes Women / Single

I've had anal many times with many different women, and never once have I pulled a 'shit covered dick' from someone's ass when we were done. Not even a trace of shit on my dick. Do you know why? It's because the anus and rectum are a passage for shit, not a warehouse. the only time shit is present is when she's actually shitting, or constapated, and good luck buttfucking her under those conditions. Also, I would never do ass to mouth even if she wanted it. And, if you read my post, demeaning behavior seems to be part of the kink. To me and my partners, it's a nice diversion from 10 minutes of missionary position lights out sex. One more thing, the woman's entire body is paradise, not just the front hole. It's like having a well stocked bar with every top shelf brand to choose from, instead of just a bottle of Jack by itself, time and time again.

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

Yes, like yours, its only an opinion. I don't have a problem with you expressing your opinion but you certainly seem to have one with me expressing mine. Some guys prefer blondes, other prefer brunettes, Neither is universally right or wrong, it is just what is right for them.

eJefe

eJefe / 49 / Man / Likes Women / Single

I have no problem with your opinion, it's just that we've all heard it over and over again. Ok, you think anal is gross and demeaning? Fine, We get it. If you don't like it, it's fully your right as a human being to refuse it. To do otherwise would only be distructive to you as a person. Anal sex has been around forever, centuries before either of us was born and it's more popular now than ever, and it isn't going to go away just because you don't like it. You want to judge people as 'sick', fine, I'm sick. But so are fully half the women I've ever been with, and probably half the people you know...maybe even your own mom and dad. I would think that a person like yourself, that claims to have lost their virginity at age 10 would be more open minded, unless that was just 2 years ago, (you don't show your age), in that case, happy 12th birthday. Seriously, though, I've engaged in activities recently that I never would have thought I would like, ten or more years ago, and I liked them! To quote an old saying, "A closed mind is an empty mind". I'd like to think that as people grow older, they would grow more adventurous, or at least get the chance. That's what happened to me, by way of being divorced. Sex lives evolve my friend, and what you think is gross today, might be the main course on you plate tomorrow. Peace!.

Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

I've had anal sex mostly with one guy. Mostly as in more anal intercourse experiences with him than with anyone else. It never hurt once with him. He didn't prefer it at all. He liked intercourse. Sometimes I gave him my ass instead; because I preferred it at those times. He never even asked me for it in the first place not even once. I like vaginal, but anal was just as good with him or better. A couple of the other guys I tried with, it hurt me and I said so. So with a couple we didn't do it. I would have tried with them further by anus (one experience one years from one experience with the other the other), but they so didn't want to cause me pain that that was that. They refused. My first anal was my fiance, and he could care less about anal pain, insisted anal is natural and I'm unnatural if that's not in my repertoire of things I consider normal. Twenty five years ago I would have said anal is dirty etc, but I'd never tried or seen it etc. My female friends had though, and were not good friends in my opinion in that they were not sympathetic to that opinion, and only had completely positive experiences with it apparently. Idk, my 2 cents.

Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

Never had a "poopy" experience.

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

Have you ever seen a cold virus or germ without the aid of microscopes. You may not see shit on your dick but all of the e-coli in the anus WILL be on your dick. Here is a hint: If you don't think so, smell it. The nose knows.

TrueLoveSwallows

TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single

@eJefe. I didn't say people who engage in anal intercourse are sick, I said it wasn't for me. What I said was sick, is when a guy pulls his cock out of a woman's ass and then wants her to suck it. If you don't think that is sick, enjoy licking toilet seats and urinals.

eJefe

eJefe / 49 / Man / Likes Women / Single

@Jana. Your attitude is very much like most of the women I've dated in my 40s, since my divorce. I think women in my age range are more open minded and in touch with their bodies. Those that were 'virgins' when we met were open to try anal, and loved it enough to want again and again. Those that were experienced already were also in touch with their bodies, and even had the attitude that it was like having two vaginas, and it just depended on the day as to whether they wanted it in the front or rear 'vagina'. The experienced ones had found their pleasure and found how to deal with pain or discomfort and it wasn't the issue anymore, probably why some of them loved it rough. Also, like youself, the anally experienced ones dated conservative men before me who wouldn't go near their caboose, no matter what. While they mostly had nothing bad to say about these men, they seemed a little disapointed at the sex life they had with these guys, and were thrilled and relieved when they brought up that they loved anal and I told them I loved it too. One woman I dated loved anal, but hadn't had it for 5 years because the man she married wouldn't go near it. We ended up doing everything on the first date, and her holes were both tight because she said her ex was small, to boot. We started out vaginally, and after she came twice, I fingered her ass. She asked if I wanted it and I said yes, but she was a little afraid of my size. We got into the doggy position and I entered her backdoor slowly with minimum lube, and she expressed some pain, so I backed off and gave her a break then proceeded slower and more carefully. Once she was relaxed, we slowly built up tempo and depth and soon we were off to the races. She came hard in just a couple of more minutes, then called on and encouraged me to do the same. after I came, she turned her head, and she was positively glowing, eyes sparkling with big smile on her face, and she said, "Oh, you're a fun one!" We dated for months and sometimes anal was the only thing on the menu she wanted.

eJefe

eJefe / 49 / Man / Likes Women / Single

@TrueLove. And I said I would never let anyone do ass to mouth...for the exact reasons you just stated. I don't think anyone should lick a toilet seat, or a cock that's just been up someone's ass.

Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

I have a very sensitive nose. I don't do ass to mouth, but that's not why. I can smell bacteria. Problem us, not all bacteria will hurt you. Bacteria is not out to hurt you. It's like blaming the flies that there are garbage trucks.

 

eJefe

eJefe / 49 / Man / Likes Women / Single

It's important to me that she gets what she wants. I love doing a woman's ass, but it seems to me that hurting her on purpose when she's not expecting or wanting that would insure that I never get to do that to her again. I've always tried to go slow and communicate when entering a backdoor, especially if she's an anal virgin, and because I'm slightly larger than average. This has kept them coming back for more. :)

Good anal requires good communication and trust, and guys that are concerned about your well being and pleasure. If someone is just interested in dominating, humiliating and hurting you, just ramming away for his own pleasure, then that's the wrong person to trust in this situation, or even for vaginal sex.

Of the women I've dated that were into anal, most of them, most of the time, seemed to considered it an alternative to vaginal. They wanted to fuck and wanted something different this time, or wanted to fuck and be close to their man, but the pussy was out of order, (period, yeast infection, pain) The other side of the coin is that sometimes they wanted to be hurt and degraded, and I wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't experienced it.

More than once, I was starting to enter a woman's backdoor, and she suddenly and violently slammed herself backwards, impaling herself on my full length in a heartbeat, generally much faster and harder than she would have wanted her pussy entered. From there, they wanted it as hard as I could give, along with spanking their asses, pulling their hair and calling them every name in the book. I aim to please, and it was what they wanted and they were happy afterwards. Possibly a trust thing again? They felt free to cut loose and be as nasty as they wanted with me, because I respected their wishes and was gentle and safe on previous encounters.

A man should never assume anything, and treat a woman well and respect her wishes. If she's not into pain or anal, respect that. If she looks you in the eye and says, "fuck me like I'm a dirty anal whore", well, then...respect that! :)


Denverm4f

Denverm4f / 40 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Guys who really enjoy having anal with a woman DON'T want it to hurt you. If you don't enjoy it, then not much chance of me getting it again (unless you're a total doormat).

Any guy who gets off on having anal hurt for a woman is a total self-centered pig.

eJefe

eJefe / 49 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Amen Bro! Better than I could say it!

 

Jlow416

Jlow416 / 47 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

just seems most guys like us to cry, why is that?

Dirk Digglar

Dirk / 38 / Man / Likes Women / Single

not this guy, I'd like it to be enjoyable and memorable

 

Topgear

Topgear / Man / Likes Women / Single

when ever pussy being losed then anal is best for guys and i think its not hurting for girls if you use oil or flesh then it can be entered smothly and silky it is not harmful for girls and not hurting her.

Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

I THInk I'm lucky, not a problem in the world like that here. Out of pure curiosity, what oil you use? How many girls you do this with.

 

Maximilian!

Maximilian / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Single

How anal is supposed to hurt you Dark when you have anal sex with a woman?

Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

A guy told me my front was so tight it hurt him. lol Some people lie. But truthfully, some guys don't like it tight. I think the anus tends to be tighter on everyone. Dark never had sex, so I guess he doesn't know things that most of us know.

Dirk Digglar

Dirk / 38 / Man / Likes Women / Single

@Jana, thank you for explaining to him.

Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

You're both cool, I think Max didn't know your history. I know you post it, but maybe I read more.

Dirk Digglar

Dirk / 38 / Man / Likes Women / Single

If you never read ya never learn.

Maximilian!

Maximilian / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Single

??

Lily Drakondia

Lily / 49 / Woman / Likes Men / Just looking

@Max, you know @Dark is a virgin, right? Only six kisses on the lips in his life, that's it, nothing else, besides whacking himself off alone. What do think about anal hurting the woman (or other gender person)'s ass, @Max? I'm betting you'd never want to hurt her.

 

Dirk Digglar

Dirk / 38 / Man / Likes Women / Single

as in hurting us or hurting you?


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