How can i help anal not hurt her so much?

By Nikki · Man / Likes Women / Single

Me and my girlfriend are trying to have anal sex but it always starts hurting her after i try to finger her a little bit even though i only use one finger and shes laying on her stomach. we cant even get to try it before it starts hurting her (she also gets sore in the vagina after a little bit if you have any tips about that or if has anything to do with what were doing now) thank you for your help i hope you know what would help us out


Mscherrypie345 / 24 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / In a relationship

yeah use lots of lube, there is no such thing is too much, there is but you bet what i mean just use alot. on your penis and her area. and try to open her up more in there. and go slow dont just bum rush her.and make sure she is cleaned out if you dont want to see poop.


Advicegurl / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Umm...well you sould get some lubricant and use a lot of it after just foreplay with her and just go really slow then progressively get a little faster and faster


Aunticrist / 41 / Man / Likes Women / Married

Lots of foreplay and lots of lube. Then more foreplay. I can't stress the importance of foreplay enough in getting your woman ready for any kind of sexual interaction. If you don't prep properly it will hurt. Plain and simple.

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Adrian / 34 / Man / Likes Women / Married

this. definitely this......


Adrian (resident A-hole)

Adrian / 34 / Man / Likes Women / Married

check it out-

Also, how do you two have vaginal sex? missionary? doggy? also, does she get wet before you enter her? sounds like you guys need to lube up a lot more. try a water-based lubricant.

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